New Year’s Resolutions
Can’t ever seem to follow them, can’t ever seem to stop making them.
New Years is a symbolic time, when we flip over that new calendar page to reveal a bright shiny new year, unblemished by the hangover of toils and tribulations and all the baggage of the last year. It’s a brand new year, a do-over of sorts, when we get a fresh start. So naturally, all that bleeping optimism leads us to make New Year’s resolutions, that if we are being realistic, we know we aren’t going to keep.
But, when turning over that new calendar page, optimism gets hold of me and I can’t help myself; I make resolutions in January that will be blown all to heck by February.
I made all the ubiquitous ones: Lose weight; blog more; be nicer to squirrels; exercise; make friends with Twitter; finish that WIP…
All the ones I made last year and didn’t follow through with.
So I asked myself what the problem was? Why can’t I follow through on all those lovely good intentions?
The problem isn’t my work ethic. I don’t have a problem with hard work. There could be a whole host of psychological factors, perfectionism, procrastination, fear of failure, fear of success, fear of squirrels, fear of successful perfect squirrels…
But I think what it comes down to is a lack of focus. I joke about having too many plates spinning at one time, and being like the circus clown trying to keep them all from crashing down, and that’s not too far from the truth. (Especially the clown hair that goes with the image.)
I do a pretty good job keeping things spinning most days, but at the end, I haven’t made much progress toward goals. I feel like an eight horse hitch with all the horses pulling in a different direction. Lots of work, not much progress.
So, this year, I decided in addition to making a detailed list I would work on a concept for the year.
(with a nod to Jennifer Grayson who got me thinking about this)
I do have lots of goals, but this year I’m going to narrow my focus to a few of them, and ask myself if the action I’m doing now helps to move me forward to that goal and the end result.
So how does that fit into blogging? One of the key goals I have for 2013 is to devote more time to building relationships both here in the cyber world and out there in the real world. There are a lot of really cool people out there and I miss interacting with you.
Thanks for stopping by, and if you have any tips on maintaining focus throughout the trials and tribulations of daily life, I’d love to hear them.
That and if you have any tips for getting a squirrel out of your ceiling tile. I’m not joking. Maybe if I could teach the little varmint to spin plates in a clown suit…